FIRST DATE IDEAS FROM MEMBERS
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My ideal first date would be a cozy dinner or a coffee date where we can talk, laugh, get to know each other, and enjoy each other’s company. I love simple but meaningful moments.
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Something fun and exciting that we both enjoy the time and each other vibes and smiles with laughter
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Meeting up in a public area and sightseeing. Have a relaxed first meeting with no pressure on either side.
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Walks on beaches or any nice places
Fun activities like dancing, bowling anywhere fun with the right company
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Urban exploration, hike in the woods, museum, arcade, axe throwing, driving range, tennis, bowling, thrift store
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Anything goes Nothing taboo. Let’s just both laugh and smile and see what happens you never know what might pop up
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A walk at a local park or downtown Greenville, grab a drink, and just talk. It keeps things light, natural, and gives us both room to be ourselves.”
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No candles for me thank you.
Informal, no pressure, no dressing up to impress. Just do your best to be you and I’ll do the same. That’s not always easy I know but nervousness is an essential part of being real so bring it along to.
If there’s chemistry then great, if not let’s do our best to enjoy the evening and wish each other well.
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Start with a great cocktail/wine bar, then do something fun together—live music, a comedy show, an interactive activity, or even a sunset walk somewhere scenic.
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So Many Choices...We could go Explore Lido Island in Newport Beach on E-bikes, stopping to bar hop and/ or check out the pier/ live music. Afterward we could walk on the Sand by the Ocean and go for a nightcap somewhere or We could get on a train and head South to San Diego. Once there, we would catch a Trolley and either head to Old Town or Downtown San Diego to Explore and / or have a picnic/ couple of margaritas. It's the Adventure of exploring and being spontaneous...no plans except to Experience Life ;)
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A walk along the river here in Wilmington. Think small shops, great views and a comfortable casual walk
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Something that gives us something to experience together rather than interviewing each other across a table. Explore a quirky neighborhood, find live music, wander a museum, try something neither of us has done before, then grab coffee or food and discover we've accidentally been talking for three hours.
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Grab my hand and say trust me I got something great planned....day trip to a small unique town with a history, random zip line run, hidden waterfall/beach area, or to a new restaurant you heard was amazing, rented wheelers to go back woods riding finding some mud on the way, or as easy as darling I want to go to a massage/spa day, i booked us sky diving, pack your bags we gor a 4 night stay at xxx...the possibilities are endless.
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I love to talk and walk for first dates. Most of us like to show up looking like how we'd look going to a wedding. But I prefer to be comfortable as we discover one another.
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A spontaneous day trip with no real agenda-pick a direction, explore a small town neither of us have been to, find a great local restaurant, wander through unique shops, and enjoy whatever conversations or adventures the day brings.
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A walk in the park, getting some ice cream, bowling or getting tacos …
I am a firm believer that the place isn’t the most important aspect. How people treat each other and connect is!
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A trip to Goat island, or a picnic out of the back of my suv in the middle of nowhere. The phones on off
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Walking in the sunshine or the rain
Coffee in the shop or on the street cafe
Lunch in the pub or in a restaurant
Chat about everything and anything
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Let’s meet at the cutest coffee shop, have the best espresso over small talk, followed by an art and culture museum, botanical garden or an escape room.. Depending on the connection all four lol
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Something easy and fun like mini golf and street tacos, walking around and talking. Open to anything, if you wanna rock climb or go try to eat a 80oz steak challenge I’m down.
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